My husband has always had his own hobbies and keeps busy with work. He had always said he understood and supported me in devoting so much time to my parents, especially since our youngest child is now almost 17.

I’m tired of the lies and the betrayal, but at the same time, I still love him. I don’t know how to reconcile those feelings or what to do next.

"On top of that, I’ve discovered that he has been calling another woman multiple times a day, sitting with her at ball games and spending time with her in ways that feel very intimate."

I thought we had an understanding and that we were on solid ground. Recently, however, he told me something that completely devastated me: He said he has never loved me. Hearing those words broke me.