Signs A Man Wants You To Flirt With Him Is he waiting for you to flirt with him… but just won’t say it? You’re not imagining things. When a man wants you to flirt with him, he often won’t chase you in the traditional sense — instead, he’ll quietly open the door and wait for you to walk through it. That silence? It’s not a lack of interest. It’s a subtle invitation. And if you’ve ever been unsure whether he’s into you or just being friendly, this video breaks it all down — through the lens of mod